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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • Hey there, I have rescued and bottle fed kittens for quite a few years, and it is really hard and gruelling work. I am so proud of you and pleased that there are people like you in this world.

    I do believe your story and I will be donating, also I am happy to answer any questions about kittens if you ever have any.

    One thing you could try that has helped me in the past, is to contact larger local rescues when you find kittens and ask them not to take the kittens, but if they can help with spay and neuter costs and adoption connections. These rescues have deals with local vets and can often get a few kittens in, if it means someone else is taking care of them.

    Over the years I have always been able to get the cost of neutering the kittens covered after calling everyone, though not always the mothers.

    Also remember that those kittens can get pregnant as early as four months old, so they need to be separated from each other until you can get them all fixed.











  • indomara@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldSkills Development.
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    4 months ago

    This, for the person doing the binding, there should be constant focus and attention as binding in the wrong way can cause nerve damage.

    It’s… Less sexy and more… Satisfaction with creating art, especially of turning your property (sub) into art - amplifying their objectification.


  • indomara@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldSkills Development.
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    4 months ago

    This type of bondage is called shibari, and it’s different in the way you described. Regular bondage is about restricted movement, maybe cuffs or topless around wrists and ankles.

    Shibari is a Japanese form of rope bondage, it is a very slow and methodical approach, where the person being bound must (generally) submit quietly the whole time it’s being done.

    The aesthetics of the binding are important, it should look good, and also should work with the mechanics of the body.

    It can be used as a pleasant and beautiful decoration on top of clothing, as here, or can use the mechanics of the body to bind in such a way that the body’s own movements cause stress.