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minus-squareInaminate_Carbon_Rod@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up7arrow-down1·29 days agoIt 100% is. My parents were abusive in this way. My wife and I are strict. There is a huge difference.
minus-squarepewgar_seemsimandroid@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up3·29 days agohow huge of a difference?
minus-squareInaminate_Carbon_Rod@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up5arrow-down1·29 days agoIt basically comes down to: My parents: do it or I’ll kick your ass My wife and I: please do it, here are the reasons for us asking and if you do it you get positive attention and possibly a physical reward. If you don’t do it, we talk about why and we listen to the reasons they give and adjust our parenting style if necessary based on their feedback. They then go and do it.
It 100% is.
My parents were abusive in this way.
My wife and I are strict. There is a huge difference.
how huge of a difference?
It basically comes down to:
My parents: do it or I’ll kick your ass
My wife and I: please do it, here are the reasons for us asking and if you do it you get positive attention and possibly a physical reward.
If you don’t do it, we talk about why and we listen to the reasons they give and adjust our parenting style if necessary based on their feedback.
They then go and do it.