It’s a textual medium, and text is not a native medium for tone. Their response to you didn’t seem like they were arguing to me, just an unfortunate miscommunication.

I know you’ve got beef with the way the users here respond to you, but I’m starting to wonder if there’s an element of implicit tone mismatch to it.

I intend this to come off as respectful and well intentioned, if I’m missing something blame it on the lack of coffee at 7 am.