• oftenawake@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    3 days ago

    Lol nice try… because I’ve got skin in the game, obviously!

    You’re not fooling anyone any more. It’s like being bothered about someone else deciding to change their name to “Brian” and then dedicating your life to refusing to call them “Brian” and trying to make sure nobody else will call them “Brian” either by posting online every day about it.

    Doesn’t that seem a little neurotic and obsessive to you?

    Like why do you care if someone else wants to be called “Brian” when you too could call yourself “Brian” - or whatever you like instead!?

    I’m really sorry you haven’t managed to accept yourself for whoever you are, I’m sure life has been pretty shit for you and I’m sorry. I do understand!

    I hope you will find acceptance of yourself because going around in the world being angry that other people are calling themselves “Brian” makes no sense and is doing you no good. It never did!

    Live and let live! You are trans and you haven’t come to terms with it. I can spot you a mile off, anybody can! Sorry to break it to you… life is going to be OK, in fact it is going to get better for you. You won’t need to be afraid of yourself or everyone else any more… only of people behaving like yourself here today.

    That’s why I care about it.

    The saddest thing for you is that you really can just be yourself in 2026 - it’s totally fine to be trans or gender nonconforming… be yourself! So all this stress, anger and bad feeling in your life is all for nothing.

    Leave it all behind, feel the weight drop off your whole being! You are trans! Stop hating yourself and have a good life from the moment you just accept who you are! Life is too short to spend your time alive being miserable, making other people’s lives worse.

    We see who you are very easily because you give yourself away instantly by attacking your own shadow in front of us, when you could just be enjoying life and being friendly.

    You aren’t fooling anyone else and you certainly haven’t managed to fool yourself.

    May you find your true self and live in peace.

    Edit: typos

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            3 days ago

            You might as well walk in holding a neon sign saying “I’m trans and haven’t come to terms with it yet because I’m too scared to face it.”

            I care if you read it, because in the meantime you are attacking that which you are unable to accept within yourself when you see other people who are totally fine about it within themselves.

            I care because you attack a minority that you’re too scared to belong to. Even though you do belong to it already.

            Ultimately I don’t personally mind if you remain alienated from yourself forever.

            I know you can’t hide that you are trans, and all the time are living a life of extreme paranoia and sadness. You carry on.

            You’re not camouflaged at all, so.I’m just letting you know we all see you, plain as day.