• Dremor@lemmy.world
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    19 hours ago

    I not saying that sex shouldn’t be enjoyable, but that f a condom is enough to ruin sex for a guy… Kinda show how much love there is in such relationship. Having a little barrier shouldn’t ever bother someone if there is truly love in that relationship.

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      11 hours ago

      You’re basically telling me that asexual people can’t love one another.

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        10 hours ago

        No, quite the opposite. If sexual pleasure is the only thing going great in a couple, and that the joy of being with each other isn’t enough for someone to put a condom, one should probably reconsider if said relationship is still a loving one.

        I’d prefer an asexual relationship with someone I deeply love to a very gratifying sex life.

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          6 hours ago

          If sexual pleasure is the only thing going great in a couple […] one should probably reconsider if said relationship is still a loving one.

          This makes sense if you omit the second condition.