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3 months agoI think “first lady” is referring to the absence of Meliana and omnipresence of Musk at Trump’s side rather than saying Musk is/identifies as female.
Still, as you say, an unwise choice of words because the phrase can be taken a couple of/a few ways.
Forced to upload a picture is because you chose the wrong post type.
I got caught by that when I started using Voyager.