I used they/them because when it comes to people who aren’t quite out it’s hard to know what they may or may not be okay with. Some people aren’t at the point where she/her is comfortable, denial can be really bad as well. Also might be a transfem enby, we don’t know that much about them though.
I have a strong feeling it could’ve also been from gender dysphoria in addition to all that. I should know, I’ve had my fair share of unpleasant genital dysphoria, and while I didn’t do that I wanted to. I also know those who have indeed done it, they did it without any mushrooms but I could see how one of them could’ve done it on mushrooms.