Almost word for word what i was going to say.
I’m in a committed, 9year relationship, we’re in our 40s and married in all but name.
The state can fuck right off.
We know what we have and no piece of paper steeped in millenia of patriarchal property ownership could ever affect or authorize that.







It doesn’t work like that, i’ve already been allowed to attend at serious medical events without her being able to say so.