I think maybe it’s your boss you should thank?

Ooh, I have that one (in blue) it’s a fucking great ladle.

This is better.

Pineapple is only good if also jalapeños. Ham is what does not belong on a pizza.

Decatpitated

“Well enough” if you want to be genuine, but brief and convey that things are not aces.

But usually just mirroring “How are you!” in the same tone as the first part of the greeting establishes that it is a ritual, not a question.

I prefer people who survive the plague 🤷‍♂️

I ducking love Merlin

Someone just had that idea:

https://lemmy.world/post/44913711

What about users who intend to post daily in the small communities they mod, but do not…. Like 12-15 maybe?

BRB, posting…

It takes a LOT of work for most people to go from lawn to native plants. Disturbed earth will grow invasives first. I’ve got an unwatered 10x20 space that I hand weed, carefully preserving natives and desirable volunteers. If I don’t stay on top of it, it’s all burr clover, Himalayan blackberry and puncture vine in no time. I had hope that if I could reestablish natives it would settle down and be maintenance free, but it’s been too many years to keep that dream alive.

The mocking birds start around 1am here. They’re at it all day as well, so I think they only sleep from like dusk to 1 during fucking season.

Bonus points for sounding like little car alarms.

I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

First off, yes, take the pill immediately. The side effects are no worse than having a period and they are not compounding. It’s not ideal to use it as your first line of defense and therefore very often, but you don’t need to worry about taking it a third time (or fourth or fifth time).

Second, get yourself a hard “no sex with a new person while drunk”policy. If you find you can’t stick to that when already drunk, then yes drinking less is necessary. You can’t really properly consent when you’re not sober.

If you’re having sex that you don’t feel good about having, it might be wise to step away from the social situation that has been leading to that happening. Do you have or can you find a social group that does things that don’t involve drinking with strangers? Maybe a hobby or hiking group?

If you are drinking too much in situations where not everyone is drinking, it might be a touch of social anxiety that you are trying to self medicate away. Cognitive behavioral therapy is the best proven method for managing this. It’s not like regular talk therapy, it’s very goal oriented with practical steps to take every day and not much (if any) talking about everything bad that’s ever happened. If you can’t afford to see a therapist there are excellent self guided resources and workbooks available.

I don’t know you or your situation, only what you stated above. I’m sure there is a lot more going on than you’d care to share with anonymous strangers. But looking into both why you are drinking and what is leading to regrettable sex will be your best bet.

Go get that pill, lady.

Obligatory cat eating pumpkin with yum yum noises: https://youtube.com/shorts/fw8feygRqG4

“I’m upright and not crying.”

https://kaleidoscopeau.wixsite.com/la-force-invisible/post/up-and-not-crying-the-quiet-strength-of-oppe-og-ikke-gråter

Wet food is life.

That is a real psychological phenomenon. A form of parasomnia.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sleep_paralysis

‘He says he’s dyin’, I suppose he should know.’

‘Dying of what?’ said Masklin.

Dyin’ of bein’ alive for such a long time,’ said Granny.

• Terry Pratchett, Truckers

(Cuz of the “14 Words” if anyone is wondering.

That sure is a lotls.