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Cake day: October 19th, 2023

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  • People recognize my husband (visual disability) and my twin (distinct dress style) around and it makes me so fucking uncomfortable when they do. Especially now here in the us. Please don’t remember us. Forget us and leave us alone. But they act like I’m an asshole for being super uncomfortable with people just fucking coming up and being all “oh you’re from x place!” cause also just because they recognize someone doesn’t mean you comment on that?? I was taught that was rude as fuck?? You also don’t know us at all???













  • This is only from my perspective having one dated one like 25 years ago

    A HUGE majority of fire stations here are volunteer. Paid firefighters are extremely rare. But it’s a physically demanding job so volunteers are rare. It’s also a very important job. So it attracts a certain type of person that thrive on that mentality of, “I’m doing a hugely important job, for free, look at me” sort of thing.

    Most are good people but a lot make it their entire personality.

    The ex I had loved to complain about these guys.

    He was one of those guys lmfao

    We also have a lot of Irish Americans??



  • Nap with cat is the best time.

    Kitten has been grumpy though because my mother’s cat was here and so all naps were with her (since the bedroom is the only place to keep her alone from kitten) and so kitten is salty there were no naps and now won’t…nap. She’s a dingus. I love her!