If you are in one of the supported locations, I can recommend Breeze. Via Breeze you can’t chat after matching. Instead you get a date planner in front of you. You pay for actual dates, meaning the app wants you to go on dates, since that is what gives them money. Cancelling dates is penalized via badges on your profile, and less priority in the algorithm. Hence, swiping right is a serious action, even more so than a message on the more serious sites. You also get a limited amount of profiles per day (around 5 to 10 or so), so you don’t get lost in swiping sessions. And yes, you do get dates with people who you really don’t click with. But the hour or two spend having a drink are still less of a waste of energy than chatting for 2 weeks to come to the same conclusion.
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Kinda. But once you pay them, you also start to expect things from them. You inadvertenty put pressure on them. This will drive some of the volunteers away.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•If everybody in the world agreed to do so, what would you rename the twelve months?
9·2 months agoIf you do that in Latin, you get names like September, October, and December. Just make sure not to randomly insert two extra months, making sevenuary by the 9th month.
I don’t mind paying a few bucks a month to get rid of all the youtube nonsense for a bit though. It’s not exactly Netflix level of pricing.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•My employer likes vibe-coding. What do I do?
9·3 months agoTo complete this 2 sentence horror story:
Such code bases are what the Vibe coding AI is trained on.
The large wheel next to the cabin is also messed up. It means the cabin must be smaller than the track width, since the cabin is squized inbetween the wheels. But in reality the cabin is always wider then the wheel base.
I agree that the lines look sharp, but the composition makes no sense. The giant wheel next to the cabin is just weird. Why is the wheel bigger? And why is the cabin not wider than the track width? This looks like a tractor, not a locomotive. The steam is comming from the coal storage, but not from the engine. And why does the coal storage have a chimney anyway? Then there are the weirdly shaped coupling rods. These mistakes make no sense in the context of a steam locomotive, but they look plausable. I’m no AI expert, but it certainly is a weird looking steam locomotive.
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I’m starting to think this was designed wrong intentionally. What better way to farm engagement then to wrongly draw a train in a meme about autism, on Lemmy?
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TenForward: Where Every Vulcan Knows Your Name@lemmy.world•Why does this keep happening?
3·3 months agoNOoo, not both!!! If we do that immediately, the episode will be over before Jeffrey Combs has even shown up.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•If an AI simulation of your dead grandmother is indistinguishable from the real thing, is that literally a ghost?
3·3 months agoIf an actor studies all data available on your grandma, manages to mimic her voice and looks, and then starts a conversation with you, acting as your grandma; are you then talking to a ghost? Cause that is what an AI does: learn to predict the behaviour of your grandma, and then act out those predictions.
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Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Why is self-hosted voice chat so hard?English
6·3 months agoI remember using mumble in a time when smartphones weren’t even a thing yet. Love to see the open source tool outlive everything else!
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Do you think intergalactic travel will ever be possible?
1·4 months agoI’d argue that it may not happen for individuals. But our DNA? Our culture? Or knowledge? I’m pretty sure these things will travel the stars one day.
Don’t forget to slow blink at the kitty and look away for a bit every now and then.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Traveling to Hong Kong and Shenzhen, tech prep?
2·4 months agoSince google is blocked, google maps is also blocked. Hence, make sure to have a good alternative available. Bing maps, Apple maps, or OSM.
My guess is that he is a DnD player that has to flash out the background of his character, so the DM can start using characters from his background.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's one lifestyle or hobby you wish you got in to but never did?
7·4 months agoWith Dirt Rally, you get a pretty damn good simulation experience for a fraction of the cost, a minimal time investment, and zero of the risks. All you need is a PC and a decent steeringwheel.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's one lifestyle or hobby you wish you got in to but never did?
8·4 months agoI started dancing 2 years ago in my early 30s. Salsa/bachata specifically. Never danced a step before then (or at least: not while sober). After a 2 years of practise, I now regularly get compliments at the festivals/parties, and the ladies at the dance school like it when I’m joining the lessons, since I can lead well. I’m still no expert, but I certainly get a lot of joy from it. And for the record: I’m a slightly overweight nerd who is certainly not nimble or agile. I also hate rythm games, I suck at those, but dancing on the beat is so much easier!
My point is: it’s worth trying. Find a dance school that teaches salsa and/or bachata, and go for it. If you find the right people, you will stay motivated, and it gets more and more fun!
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Why do people who try to convince others to switch to metric focus so much on the conversions?
5·4 months agoThere is one conversion that I use every now and then: liter to kilo: A liter of water weighs about a kilo.
Helpful to compare groceries when some products use weight and others volume. For example, I can buy 1kg buckets of yoghurt. I then know that those buckets hold about 1 liter. Handy when re-using the buckets.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Does anyone have any advice for young adults that are struggling in life?
4·4 months agoTo be fair, joining the Russian army does make planning the rest of your life a lot easier.
Fortunately your heating pad has brough a laptop for you to work on!




OP literally asks like 10 relevant questions for this place, and names their reasons for not naming specific instances. And all you focus on, is the question: who did it?
To me that is proof that OP did the right thing here.
Lets first figure out how to approach this without knowing the pupotrator.