No kids and a horse atm. Take your money and invest it in yourselves. Horses and kids are expensive as fuck

GOP is sure its possible

Always love yourself first, then love someone else. Its easy to settle, but its tough to find the right person, but they do exist

Sounds like your lack of an emotional connection is being funneled through physical attention. You might be attacking the wrong feeling. I would still recommend a therapist not just a random guy on lemmy. I’m positive you can find a solution, I will always reccomend that you know yourself before you go into a relationship because we all tend to lose ourselves.

But in maintaining the need for physical touch you are likely making your need worse. Therapy is never a bad option and in all reality, the need of physical touch may also be a point of contention and arguments in any future relationship. Guys suck at it, especially ones with trauma, so you need to learn to be self sufficient.

It sounds like you dont know who you are. Take a minute alone and learn how to be independent and love the things you love, then stroll into your next relationship more confident and mature. You are desperately jumping into relationships to fill a void instead of being interested in the person you are dating.

Im all for removing elon into obscurity, but also dont need him selling shit to russia or china… atleast any more then trump already is

Gotta hope nothing rash happens… he holds national secrets…

You would think, but they stopped paying contracts too. Even awarded defense contracts have gone unpaid

Doesnt that make it harder for the majority of GOP voters to vote?

Yeah, well use a hiring freeze then make it absolutely hell to work and all existing and future employees will leave…

This will be in the courts by the end of next week marking it unconstitutional

Wow, so incompetent that they will leave us in a CR for an entire year. By the time they figure out 2025 funding, the USG will have negative weeks to spend it and shutdown again because of a lack of a 2026 appropriations bill.

Peope fired were ones discussing the matter. The messages were not about standard trans issues but details about their sex life and orgasms post transistion, which is a huge violation. That shit is not safe for work at any job. And being that these chats are saved, the government wants no liability for holding that level of sensitive information. This was a huge violation of government systems in which they accepted the terms of use. If you think that this is a target thing, then you seriously do not understand how the world around you works. I’m completely for the rights of all people, but there are still lines that you do not cross. If I were to work there and just start rambling off about how big of a dick I have is, or any details of sensual activities the night prior I would have been fired too.

The content was past trans issues and more along detailed experiences of sex and orgasms post transition. Not exactly safe for work material. The chat was likely stood up by a member of the agency, but the chat was not sponsored by the agency. Being that it is hosted on government systems, it is a huge violation.

While it was likely uncovered by the anti DEI order, it still violated the rules of the chat which basically say in no way shape or form should there be anything but mission related content. No matter how you put it, they violated the rules of system which comes with harsh penalties.

Unfortunately it was justified. The messages were extremely explicit for a government collaboration chat

But for those who are at retirement age, the only way to get it again is to be hired again, which wont happen for atleast 4 years

Below is the OPM guidelines https://www.opm.gov/retirement-center/fers-information/former-employees/#Options

Its technically quitting which means pension is removed. The only way to keep a government pension is to retire from the government with x amount of years. I forget the base amount, but this is why people will work for the government for a while, go to contractor to make a shit ton more, then go back into the government to retire.