

I’m going to go a different route with advice.
Once this all gets worked out, it might be worth considering a new rule with gifts: don’t gift things, gift experiences. Or alternatively, don’t gift permanent things, gift consumables.
If you gift someone a tool, appliance, dress, etc. then they will need to find space to store it, even if they don’t like it. But if you get them a bottle of wine, or a dinner, or a trip to the Bahamas, then if they don’t like it it won’t be there forever and they’ll likely have a nice story.
But that might not work with your relationship and I have no way of knowing. Just pitching the idea in case it’s a good fit for you




I have never heard of someone putting pumpkin and sweet potatoes into chili