Emotional openness, vulnerability, and availability to listen in return. Genuine expression of emotion. Then just try to limit forwarding the trauma of previous generations.
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politics @lemmy.world•BREAKING: Trump just lost Saudi ArabiaEnglish
1·12 days agoThis reminds me of the Estonian commander (?) Simply saying “were fucked” in response to the joint eu/Ukraine drone exercise. It turns out the US isn’t fairing better.
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Fediverse@lemmy.world•Mastodon - Graph of Non-English Instances [17MB]English
1·16 days agoI was going to ask if they used the eve online map system mapper lol
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•If everybody in the world agreed to do so, what would you rename the twelve months?English
1·23 days agoThese ones are bad
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•If everybody in the world agreed to do so, what would you rename the twelve months?English
1·24 days ago4, 4, 4, 4, 7
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•If everybody in the world agreed to do so, what would you rename the twelve months?English
7·24 days ago1, 2, 3, 4, 6, 5, 7, 8, 9, 11, 10, 12, 13
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•If everybody in the world agreed to do so, what would you rename the twelve months?English
1·24 days agoUndnary Decruary Nonsh Oct Senn Quint Quartust Tertiember Secomber Primcember
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•If everybody in the world agreed to do so, what would you rename the twelve months?English
25·24 days ago0, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, A, B
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What is the most useless fact you know?English
5·27 days agoThat’s a minor sound when I do it if I understand correctly. Audible but light. I can flex the muscles in my jaw/tongue as one would to attempt to pop ears, but pushing out from the back of the mouth and pulling my jaw backwards. I think it slightly restricts blood flow and makes it turbulent past the ear. Sounds like pulsar tinnitus (probably not relatable) but constant as long as I hold it.
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Leopards Ate My Face@lemmy.world•Tucker Carlson Facing ‘Foreign Agent’ Charges, He Says—’They Read My Texts’English
5·1 month agoWell that’s how they all keep each other in line.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Does anyone else feel like fediverse (particulary Lemmy) is getting more and more quieter?English
3·1 month agoFedinsfw.app
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•How do you balance enjoying what you do with having friends?English
1·1 month agoIs it wrong to want to choose my friends?
No, it is fine and good. You get to pick friends, that’s the point. Obviously this has some fluctuation, but they should overall be a positive value in your life.
How do you balance doing what makes you happy with maintaining friendships, especially if your happiness and your current friend group don’t line up?
Do what you like and make friends who do that too. Your friends should be people you have fun hanging out with. If the activity is a prerequisite then that’s that.
Any thoughts, advice, or personal experiences would be really helpful.
I do rock climbing, met several fun people at the gym, we climb together now. Good friends. Also took a dance class, meet a couple friends there. I do what I’m interested in and those interests being friends and connections. You can always fall back on the interests/hobbies for activities.
No reason to maintain a friendship simply because of the label/category of “friend” because that’s not really a meaningful relationship.
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Technology@lemmy.world•Microsoft Copilot to hijack your browser... for your own convenienceEnglish
9·1 month agoI’ve changed my mind, I’m ok with kink shaming in some cases
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Technology@lemmy.world•Windows 12 release date in 2026 possible, with AI features that may force CPU upgradesEnglish
41·1 month agoWindows is already occupying your hardware and network with “telemetry”. I would be surprised if telemetry overhead alone was all that was needed to burden modern hardware and yet when i boot into windows those fans never shut up.
DDG performance has dropped for me. I use a mix of their app and Firefox loaded with a searxng.
Works like old Google, No ads, tends to reduce SEO sloop that DDG is susceptible to.
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Not The Onion@lemmy.world•The U.S. Army accidentally revealed new images of its Dark Eagle hypersonic missile systemEnglish
3·2 months agoI’d argue it’s any age from 18 to 50ish. But they’re 10yo’s at heart [maturity level]
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Not The Onion@lemmy.world•The U.S. Army accidentally revealed new images of its Dark Eagle hypersonic missile systemEnglish
4·2 months agoIt didn’t look like that already?
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Not The Onion@lemmy.world•The U.S. Army accidentally revealed new images of its Dark Eagle hypersonic missile systemEnglish
26·2 months agoMiltech leaks belong in the War Thunder forums. Fake news

The AI is struggling to achieve uncanny valley.