I want to just delete my Discord, FB, Reddit, Second Life and other social sites so I can just be focused on myself. But I can’t because the guilt of seemingly deserting those I have left, will be hard to deal with.

  • Asafum@lemmy.world
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    14 hours ago

    I pretty much gave up on dating, “no one” seems to be able to find what they’re looking for and dating parasites apps have made the issue 1000000x worse… When your world of potential dates expands dramatically and they’re all a swipe away the dating pool becomes a buffet table and the perfect dish is just one more swipe away… And another swipe… And another swipe… Pass on all these people, the next will be the perfect one… And another swipe…

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      13 hours ago

      the problem is people have impossible standards, not just for dating, but life in general.

      and if you don’t live in that perpetually unhappy head space, they think you’re a loser.