• sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    22 hours ago

    Pedro has been rather public about his embrace and defense of trans and queer folks.

    Many trans and queer folks are disowned or actively hated by their families.

    So… the ‘joke’ is that Pedro gets all the Happy Father’s Day messages instead… because he accepts them, when their actual dads don’t.

    This is immensely depressing, hence the cigarette.

    I also don’t use instagram, but enough stuff that happens on instagram filters through to media I do actually interact with that I can givd you this summary.

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      3 hours ago

      Weirdly wholesome really, it’s about acknowledging your role models and thanking them for being there. Sure it’s a bit parasocial but he’s championing their causes so I can see why they’d want to express gratitude.

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        20 hours ago

        Welp, today I learned what DD/LG stands for.

        Uh, yes, I … guess both work.

        Personally, I am immensely turned off and weirded out by that kind of dynamic, but uh hey, if its consensual and there’s a safe word, whatever floats your boat lol.

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          19 hours ago

          Personally, I am immensely turned off and weirded out by that kind of dynamic, but uh hey, if its consensual and there’s a safe word, whatever floats your boat lol.

          And thus, his face.

          (Hell I only knew myself because I was kinda sorta forced to have that dynamic under questionable consent by my abusive ass ex. Shit happens, got real weird when she insisted on the pacifier after we became roommates and thus financially tied for a spell but she could leave me holding the bag since she wasn’t on the lease, really slow boiled me on that one. Now though you can’t bother me by calling me daddy, or…for related reasons…CNC…don’t ask… so… I win? What I’m trying to say is ladies my DMs are open lmao.)

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            19 hours ago

            Dang. Yeah, that doesn’t sound like fun.

            Now I am making that face, albeit with a vape.

            Oi fucking vei, lol

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                17 hours ago

                I am spending much less money than what I was spending on cigs, with a vape.

                I was a pretty heavy smoker for a good while… been slowly tapering down the nic levels over time.

                I guess if you just kept buying disposable vapes, yeah that’d be pricey, but … I spend about $35 a month on pods and juice… vs previously spending that much a week on cigs.