32m here and ive been on dating apps for over 10 years and think they’ve gotten worse since the whole swiping algorithm. I always do max swipes daily on fb dating, tinder, and bumble with minimum to no success. Tinder being the worst of the three. Ik irl is better, I just am not good at it with social anxiety and overthinking. Anybody find what works on these apps if you’re an average looking man?
My friend bought a camera, learned to take good pics and we made ourselves a photo session. It helped, I got more matches, but I couldn’t get along with any of them. Well, I did with one until I fucked it up…
Anyway, I ended up joining an AuDHD meet up group on FB and soon after my now girlfriend posted and we’re now 1.5 year together