32m here and ive been on dating apps for over 10 years and think they’ve gotten worse since the whole swiping algorithm. I always do max swipes daily on fb dating, tinder, and bumble with minimum to no success. Tinder being the worst of the three. Ik irl is better, I just am not good at it with social anxiety and overthinking. Anybody find what works on these apps if you’re an average looking man?

    • socsa@piefed.social
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      8 hours ago

      It’s not that simple.

      1. Be attractive.
      2. Don’t be unattractive.
        2a. You gain half a point attractiveness bonus for every $200k you have in the bank.