Looking for:

  • no misogynists (so dbzer0 is out)
  • no libertarians, no marxist lenninsts, no tankies, no rightwingers
  • people who understand climate change is real
  • leftists including anarchists, social democrats, democratic socialists, communists, etc are great

I picked world bc I was told it would have the most activity. Since joining Lemmy I have been repeatedly harassed by men on this instance, threatened with murder and rape by users including open Nazis (this was also happening on Reddit), and permabanned for being a woman, for being a feminist, and for not breaking any rules and posting factual news sources. Would like a better instance.

Have been considering solarpunk Lemmy but willing to consider other instances, just not sure

  • SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    1 day ago

    Hey, how’s dbzer0 sexist???

    Shocked at your experience on Lemmy honestly. Particularly perma banned for being a woman?

    Solarpunk is good.

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      24 hours ago

      OK so decided to check the modlog. You’ve been banned from 5 different comms on 4 different instances by 5 different mods.

      • One for name calling and personal attacks.
      • One for trolling.
      • One for being generally unpleasant.
      • One says many many rule violations.
      • One says Repeated misinformation.

      On comms like casual UK and tumblr.

      You have two removed posts, one posting us news where it isnt allowed. One being ‘not news’, which is arguable.

      And so many removed comments that I can’t even go through it all. Having read a couple they seem fair. I’m sure theres some unfair ones amongst them.

      But your behaviour is very reddit like. Please understand that this place is run by the money and effort of the individuals who you are often attacking, the admins. People here also prefer to be chill and not combative unless there’s extreme right wingers. Mild petty internet disagreements are not worth being uncivil about.

      You are of course more than welcome here as your heart is clearly in the right place but please understand that people here just want a chill space to be in.

      Edit: and this is one of 5 accounts!

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        “Lol you aren’t evil, you are just weak minded and unable to perform empathy at an adult level. Asking you to do so created a tantrum. Yes, you are a gender narcissist as I’ve explained. You are sexist, quite transparently. I won’t go away, I have a right to exist here. You can leave if you want, since you have nothing substantial to add. I’d also bite your dick off to watch you writhe so you might want to keep the sweety comment to yourself. I’m not that sweet, professionally so.”

        I’m not even looking for bad ones, this is just right upfront. The whole conversation is a mess, not just you.

        But both sets of comments were removed not just yours.

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          19 hours ago

          Won’t someone please think of the poor misogynists? Waa. All they are doing is destroying society and killing and enslaving women

          Go ahead, post what he wrote to me.

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        “He does. One is an executive of neuralink. Elon and other billionaires literally want to kill everyone and start their own super human race. They are starting a civil war.”

        I despise elon but wouldn’t complain if this was removed for being misinformation.

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        22 hours ago

        Damn, she got exposed lmao. You’re doing the lord’s work be sharing this with the community, thank you.

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          19 hours ago

          Exposed for things I openly talked about in my first comment? Doing the lord’s work for not putting the comments I was responding to? Enlightened centrism supporting the status quo of the patriarchy once again, and women better shut up and get in line, huh?

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        https://lemmy.world/post/36969200/19817472

        Per the mod that banned me, that is not why I was banned for some of those.

        The “US news” was about Elon Musk, a man from South Africa, interfering in global elections worldwide. They claimed it was US only but it wasn’t.

        And I am proud to give personal attacks to misogynists, fascists, racists, child predators, and all the other dirtbags on here. That I am trying to avoid future conflict by changing instances is seemingly lost on you - yeah, when people defend themselves and stand up to abusers and the status quo, that creates waves and conflict. That is how we got human rights. I don’t respect attitudes like yours.

        I do not have 5 accounts. I have this account.

        WE THE COMMUNITY make the rules for general behavior, and I will NOT be compliant to the HORRIBLE SHIT I see on Lemmy constantly.

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        OP thinks any reaction to them flipping their shit instantly and constantly is aimed at their gender, instead of them flipping their shit instantly and constantly.

        • Eugene V. Debs' Ghost@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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          Yeah she seems a little off. I think she posts a little oddly but I don’t think she’s bad because she’s a woman. I think she’s a bit stressed out lately, and understandably so.

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        This, see below, he says they have a screengrab of my comments.

        Please understand completely that misogyny IS gender fascism. I do not give a FUCK about being palatable to ANY fascists. Have you smelled the blood of a woman giving birth? Do you understand what that kind of slavery is like? Do you understand what has been at stake for your mother and every woman for months? Or are you blind and numb to it because it doesn’t involve you?

        This sexist rhetoric online and elsewhere has been an issue since Gamergate, it’s pusged by massive 5tth gen warfare networks with MINIMAL pushback, and women were told to pipe down and it’s the boys club - and now abortion rights have been taken away and they are seriously trying to take away the right to vote, the right to divorce, the right to beat and rape your wife (spousal rape was still legal in the 90s). Me insulting people like this is like me insulting blatant genocidal Nazis - which I’ve also done and received raoe and death threats for… because they are all fascists.

        Some of us have to stand for something and say something. The reason they squirm and complain is because it works.

        Recommended documentaries (trigger warning):

        • It’s A Girl (infanticide)
        • Half the Sky (graphic sexism, sexual abuse)
        • Whore’s Glory (graphic sexual abuse)
        • Bleeding Edge (medical)
        • Hot Coffee (medical)
        • Diagnosis (medical)
        • How to Die in Oregon (assisted suicide)
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      https://lemmy.world/post/36969200/19817472

      If you look at the second link, a user told me they proudly laugh at me and have pics of my comments as their banner - because I am angry that Project 2025 is killing women, enslaving women, and taking away our rights, and men seemingly do not give a fuck at all. In fact they complain about lack of sex and intimacy and gaslight women telling us to calm down, or to fuck rightwing men to calm them down and get them on our sides (you have holes, use yours). I will never join that instance if that is considered okay behavior.