• explodicle@sh.itjust.works
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    3 days ago

    I can’t speak for every man, but I give no shits if a woman I’ve rejected says something mean. She’s not going to follow me home, rape me, and beat me to death.

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      3 days ago

      I’ve had a woman I rejected stalk me, spy on me while I was having sex with my girlfriend at the time, and then drug and rape me.

      Yeah, yeah, I know. Something something anecdotal something something statistics something something I should go fuck myself.

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          2 days ago

          And why exactly is that, oh great and wise rape apologist?

          EDIT: As expected, you just hate hearing that men are actually victimized because you’ve convinced yourself that it somehow detracts from your own victimization, so rather than have an actual discussion where you might have to challenge your deeply-rooted beliefs, you snark, downvote, and run away like an utter coward. You can, in fact, go fuck yourself with a hot metal spike.

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      3 days ago

      Sure she’s not. Are you really that ignorant?

      Short of the immediate physical violence that is FAR from out of the question from girls, do you write off having her family, your own family, thugs, your peers and authority-figures sicc’ed on you for made-up bullshit as nothing at all? Even just having “he made her cry” or “he’s afraid of a girl” reach the wrong ears or big-enough audience can cause all-sorts of fallout.

      It’s amazing how much y’all weaponize the things “we don’t do”(but statistics say otherwise) as an excuse to ignore all sorts of malice.

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        Chill. Yes I absolutely do write that off, I’ve never met any man to whom that has actually happened.

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          So cute how you skipped straight to false-rape-accusation levels of “that never happened”, and you’re telling me to chill. You also apparently never talked to a man about what’s happened to him.

          Sounds exhausting to put such efforts into making sure we don’t feel safe-enough around you to tell you about it, but y’all are just so proud of yourselves for it.

          “Dude got beat up by a girl!”, “he must have deserved it!!”, “that never happens” … One of us is bullshitting and outing themselves as an awful person here, and I gotta tell you, it normally takes a lot to out-shine me at that, but there you are.