AFAB. It got easier after I figured myself out more and treated underlying anxiety issues. I don’t think it had to do with gender but I don’t know. Some of those anxieties are exasperated or influenced by cultural factors and social roles of course. So, I suppose it depends on where those feelings and stopgaps are on an individual level to some degree. That being said, I find trans people’s experiences particularly enlightening on these topics as many have seen both sides of the coin and then some. I hope some of you guys can chime in here.