As a guy, I never really felt comfortable saying those things to anyone irl.

  • FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Sometimes people act like they’re helping but it means they just bring up your problem again and again and confuse you as to what you really want to do about it. This could absolutely be done on accident, in an eagerness to help, but i also see it done deliberatrly by a few, just to pester people