Context: I’m trying to put myself in my parents perspective.

By “kids”, this includes those that have already reached the age of majority (i.e. adult children)

  • sbv@sh.itjust.works
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    2 days ago

    “Hate them” is not what I’ve felt.

    When they were young and couldn’t stop crying, I felt really frustrated and wanted them to stop. Stepping out of the room for a lil mental health break is a good way to deal with that.

    Now they’re a bit older, I get annoyed by their reflexive “no” when asked to do something reasonable (e.g. clean up after themselves). Ironically, giving them a little bit of space lets them calm down and they usually comply.

    I love these lil punks. I hope I’m never capable of hating them. Even if I may be annoyed at what they do.