And seriously, if the friction is the only thing that make you enjoy sex, and not with whom you have sex with, you seriously should reconsider your relationship.
Why would you choose to do anything for fun that isn’t mutually enjoyable? You can enjoy both your partner’s company and also the activity you do together at the same time. It’s not one or the other. Don’t like condomed sex? Then don’t do it. There’s more to a romantic relationship than sex.
I not saying that sex shouldn’t be enjoyable, but that f a condom is enough to ruin sex for a guy… Kinda show how much love there is in such relationship. Having a little barrier shouldn’t ever bother someone if there is truly love in that relationship.
No, quite the opposite. If sexual pleasure is the only thing going great in a couple, and that the joy of being with each other isn’t enough for someone to put a condom, one should probably reconsider if said relationship is still a loving one.
I’d prefer an asexual relationship with someone I deeply love to a very gratifying sex life.
Why would you choose to do anything for fun that isn’t mutually enjoyable? You can enjoy both your partner’s company and also the activity you do together at the same time. It’s not one or the other. Don’t like condomed sex? Then don’t do it. There’s more to a romantic relationship than sex.
I not saying that sex shouldn’t be enjoyable, but that f a condom is enough to ruin sex for a guy… Kinda show how much love there is in such relationship. Having a little barrier shouldn’t ever bother someone if there is truly love in that relationship.
You’re basically telling me that asexual people can’t love one another.
No, quite the opposite. If sexual pleasure is the only thing going great in a couple, and that the joy of being with each other isn’t enough for someone to put a condom, one should probably reconsider if said relationship is still a loving one.
I’d prefer an asexual relationship with someone I deeply love to a very gratifying sex life.
This makes sense if you omit the second condition.