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Cake day: October 24th, 2025

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  • I think that’s more about entitlement than anything. We raised our son so that he’s happy riding both crowded public transport & a nice car, a DIY meal on the sidewalk & a fancy restaurant meal, thrifted clothes and nice clothes, etc. Entitlement is very much a “nurture” thing. And we have not nurtured that. Being humble and down to earth is a trait that should be universally instilled. We give him an amount of money for example - he knows how to manage that money in a smart way. He never asks for more cause he “overspent”.


  • Essentially the same thing, but in a different context. I was born in 1979 in a communist dictatorship. My parents left the country immediately after the fall of communism in 1989 to work illegally in Europe and send money home. I lived with my grandparents during those chaotic times, similar to what Argentina is experiencing today. My parents bought land and built two houses on it from scratch (one for me and one for them). They fully supported me with the money and stuff they sent from abroad, and they gave me the funds to start my own business in 2000. It was very difficult for them, but they showed me what committed, driven parents can and should do. They always said that “can’t” doesn’t exist, it’s just “don’t want to.”



  • I believe the most important thing is knowing how to take care of yourself, your belongings, and your surroundings. Even while he was still living at home, he was taught how to cook, clean, do his own laundry, do yard and garden work, handle basic house maintenance, take care of his dog, manage money, etc. We sent him to a good public school, and he commuted to and from school using public transport. The university he attends is also a good public one with a wide variety of students. In our language, there’s a saying that translates to “to be anointed with all the ointments” in English, which essentially means being versatile, adaptable, savvy and not stuck up. That’s a philosophy we personally believe in.