Sundray
Just a little enby shitposter (18+ tho). They/them today, but whatev, I’m fluid. (Original profile image by Hello Cdd20 from Pixabay, edited by me. Banner: Promo art for the game Ikaruga, by Treasure.)
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It’s not so much about dating close friends, but about friends of friends—people you don’t necessarily know, but who are not strangers, on account of your shared mutual friend. A friendly introduction by your mutual puts you a billion steps ahead of the rando at the coffee shop awkwardly trying to start up a conversation with you.
I’m sure you’re right, but at least when it comes to dating apps, those tend to reward people with conventional appeal. People whose best qualities only become apparent when you get to know them can find online dating options to be kind of a dead end.
Are they not introducing you to their other friends or available family members? If they know you are looking for someone, and that you’re having a hard time meeting new people, they could at least keep an eye out for you.
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TenForward: Where Every Vulcan Knows Your Name@lemmy.world•No further!English
20·14 hours ago
You don’t have any women in your friend group? Most relationships are with people who start out as friends-of-friends that grow closer during social interactions over time.
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TenForward: Where Every Vulcan Knows Your Name@lemmy.world•Half a scaramucciEnglish
36·19 hours agoWell, in Katie’s defense–

No, no, I’m sorry. Could you imagine?
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Technology@lemmy.world•OpenAI models hacked a crypto wallet and breached more websitesEnglish
57·1 day agoOpenAI
modelsemployees hacked a crypto wallet and breached more websitesC’mon, if a robot fucks up, the homie that turned it on has got to be held responsible.
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TenForward: Where Every Vulcan Knows Your Name@lemmy.world•Who's your favorite Yar?English
8·1 day agoOh it’s so hard to choose…
I’m afraid not 😔
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TenForward: Where Every Vulcan Knows Your Name@lemmy.world•There's one on every shipEnglish
4·2 days agoBreak his leg. Give him a real condition to complain about!
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Technology@lemmy.world•Data Centers Are Driving Conservative Rural Voters to The Democratic Party En Masse: It turns out that middle America REALLY detests data centers.English
5·2 days agoI’m not convinced that MAGAs would actually see a problem with that…
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Technology@lemmy.world•Data Centers Are Driving Conservative Rural Voters to The Democratic Party En Masse: It turns out that middle America REALLY detests data centers.English
1·2 days agoBest you can hope for with people that deep in the red mindset is to discourage them from voting. They can’t bring themselves to vote for a “Dumbocrat”, but if they hate their own party’s option enough, they won’t vote for them either, just stay home in miserable despair.
That’s what we have to hope for.
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TenForward: Where Every Vulcan Knows Your Name@lemmy.world•Should have used the season 1 power-bun hairdoEnglish
4·2 days agoWhat about Inaction Bob?









The Great Mug, jump in friend!