In Chinese usage, the cuckold (or wittol) is said to be “戴綠帽子” dài lǜmàozi, translated into English as ‘wearing the green hat’. The term is an allusion to the sumptuary laws used from the 13th to the 18th centuries that required males in households with prostitutes to wrap their heads in a green scarf (or later a hat).

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      In 2007 I went to a hockey game. They gave away a hat. It says “Lake Erie Monsters”.

      Now, today the team has been renamed. It’s now the Cleveland Monsters.

      Point is, it’s a red hat, with white text, and I haven’t been able to wear it since 2016 despite having nothing to do with trump or politics.

      I just like hockey. And my hat is RUINED!!!

      Its just like when I was a kid, and I was like “WOW! CHARLIE CHAPLIN!!! I’M GOING TO GROW A MUSTACHE JUST LIKE YOU WHEN I GROW UP!!!”

      Yeah…about that…

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        I’ve been a 49ers fan for more than 30 years, thanks to these assholes now a white guy in a red hat is immediately suspect. I tend to wear the white one with red accents more often just so folks don’t get the wrong idea.

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          Ohhhhhhh, please nobody make blue or orange hats bad.

          I mean, orange is ALREADY a bad hat to wear, but it’s not political. It’s just the Browns are…just so…so bad…for so very long.

          But at least it’s not assosiated with trump!

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    In church heraldry, Bishops and Archbishops use use a green hat. Up until the last decade, the Chinese Bishops and Archbishops used other colors for this very reason.

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    9 hours ago

    Poor Luigi…

    …although on second thought maybe it’s a legit kink for him. Some people love being the cuckold. Not meaning to kinkshame Luigi either.

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    Do Chinese snicker amongst themselves when they see a tourist wearing a green hat? I know I would

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      When I was in Japanese language school, this actually came up amongst the Chinese students in the group as it was an example in the textbook or something. Laughter was had and then they explained to the rest of us later.