• Test_Tickles@lemmy.world
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      7 hours ago

      I’m right there with you bro… I too know that feeling when you are wearing your normal clothes on Halloween and someone asks you what you are dressed up as…

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      7 hours ago

      And you should wear it with confidence. Honestly had the most respect for people who are really cute out in public but then reveal their true gremlin selves at home when the makeup is off and they’re in pajamas and a t shirt.

      Means they really worked for those good looks, which most people really need to do at my age.

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        1 hour ago

        My self- esteem is low, but not because I am ugly. More because I feel like I have no purpose as I keep failing to get a job.

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          Yeah, that’s a tough one.

          If you’re young, that’s just how it is right now. You’re totally valid in feeling frustrated or inadequate but also know you’re not doing especially badly compared to others in your position.

          If you’re older, it just takes some people longer before the pieces fall into place. Right person wrong time kind of deal.