• Mortoc@lemmy.world
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    20 days ago

    Or maybe Autistic people aren’t a price and they’re just as valuable as you fucking ableist normies.

      • Hule@lemmy.world
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        20 days ago

        You don’t think autistic people and their relatives are paying the toll for the condition?

        I mean they would have it easier without it. Why is that offensive?

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          Framing autism in general as a “price” that has to be paid is demeaning and IMO a bad take anyway. It’s par for the course with neurotypical folk only seeing autism as a net negative and not thinking about all the great human advancements that I would bet are the result of an autistic person’s hyperfixation. Particularly STEM advancements.

          Severe cases are usually debilitating, yes. But ASD1 is a lot more common than people realize, it’s still very underdiagnosed. I firmly believe I’m better off with it.

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            20 days ago

            Thank you for your explanation.

            I also see the world through my unique lens, I was thinking that anyone having it MUST feel that it’s bad.

            But yeah, it’s just normal from their point of view…

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              20 days ago

              Most of the challenges of being autistic come from neurotypical people and their expectations. When im around other ND people i dont ‘struggle’ at all, the struggle is existing in a society that tells me im existing ‘wrong’ when to me its clear as day that my way is better but noone wants to listen to why.

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              19 days ago

              To add onto emeralddawn45’s response, studies have shown that communication within groups of all autistic people is just as effective as communication within groups of all allistic people. It’s mixed groups where communication becomes less effective. https://doi.org/10.1177/1362361320919286

              In my experience, this extends beyond just communication. Every social aspect is easier with other autistic folks and more difficult with allistic folks. Yet we’re constantly told we have poor social skills by allistic people, who don’t recognize that they are equally part of the social difficulty equation.

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          20 days ago

          The existence of autism isn’t the problem. The “toll” we pay is other folks treating us like problems to be solved rather than as people.

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    20 days ago

    I prefer to be referred to as “Neo-sapiens”. “The price of human intelligence” is such a Homo sapiens thing to say.

    Would you like it if neanderthals came along and called you “UNGA BUNGA!!!”?