• dkppunk@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    I 100% agree with you. I’m extremely happy for friends who want and have kids and I’m extremely happy for friends who don’t want and don’t have kids. I do not keep people like her in my personal life and I was so happy when I switched teams.

    She was very much into, you can only be a Real Womantm if you follow these guidelines:

    1. Make babies from your own body
    2. Marry a man
    3. Have long hair (she was even weirder about this part)

    She would always say weird shit like that when looking directly at me; an unwed by choice, childless by choice, woman with a mohawk. She was just a bitter dick about a lot of stuff and big mess. In my experience, stuff like that usually comes from people who are generally unhappy with something in their own life, thankfully it’s not a common occurrence.