the revelation is that there are actually mature enough people to admit this is real problem instead of getting defensive, whatabouting, or gaslighting the other person
what i meant to convey was its difficult to find men who don’t think this is a revelation. i.e it would be hard to find a dude who isn’t offended by a rejection.
Imagine this being a revelation.
the revelation is that there are actually mature enough people to admit this is real problem instead of getting defensive, whatabouting, or gaslighting the other person
There’s nothing mature about enabling a person’s prejudices or delusions.
what i meant to convey was its difficult to find men who don’t think this is a revelation. i.e it would be hard to find a dude who isn’t offended by a rejection.
Ok, but as far as I’m aware very few people, regardless of gender, take rejection well.
Nothing about that comment indicates it’s a revelation. It sounds more like long experience than sudden realization.