I have been prepping my home for the last five hours and I’m exhausted. Couldn’t really do it sooner because I was working. My family always make me feel bad when there is cat hair or dust somewhere. Is it okay to put the bar a little lower? Would it be okay to just do less? What are your own standards about cleaning?
I have my standards higher than my fiancee, which is annoying for both of us since she’s mostly reponsible for housework in our apartment. But we’ve just compromised on the level
Why is she mostly responsible? My husband has higher standards for housework than I do, so I do more of the cooking and gardening, finances, we arrange the division of labor to accommodate our strengths.
I work, she is at home most days
That makes sense. We both work, I go to office and he works from home, but both full time.