Long story short I have never been successful in dating in any shape or form and it’s starting to really affect my everyday life. I have been in therapy for over 7 years (recently quit) to no avail. I am already on antidepressants which thankfully dampens my libido a bit but I now I want it all the way gone.
So anyway, should I tell my family about this? Nothing will really change if I do, but a part of me is telling they ought to know, you know? But I am not sure if I want to.
If you think they should know, then you shouldn’t do it. It sounds like you’re doing it to punish them, and telling them is only to hurt them. If you feel like you need to tell them, then you should reconsider doing it and just go no contact. But it sounds like your goal is just to hurt them. Which, fair, but words can do the same job as good or better than life changing actions that can’t be taken back.