Somewhere between B and C. If I know more about a subject, I can usually tell pretty quickly. I’ll try to engage early on with a “yes and” kind of response that completes their latest point and demonstrates knowledge of what they were going to go on to say. I’ll try not to be condescending, and present my thoughts as enthusiastic dialogue.

I’d probably cut them off early to say something like “Oh sweet, I’m into ___ too” and then encourage them to continue. It would be more fun for them to know they’re talking to a fellow enthusiast.

I listen very carefully for any mistakes they make so I can correct them.

That depends, do I still have ADHD in this scenario?

Depends on the context of the conversation.

If it’s a casual conversation and they are enthusiastic I’ll let them talk.

If someone is trying to tell me how something is done while they quote the manual I wrote, I’ll cut them off.

I usually cut in with a comment like, “I know a little about this because it interests me, too.” Since it’s a common interest, you do still have a topic to talk about.

I usually let them finish, Even if I already know about whatever they’re dumping onto me, unless it’s something that I don’t feel super comfortable with. I’m obviously not gonna listen to a long chat about insect facts, but will listen to someone chat about why they love something like Summer Camp Island, a show I’ve seen every episode of multiple times over.

depends on the person.

Depends on if this is work or not.

If it is work and I’m pressed for time, I usually start to interrupt them and give a summary based on what I know and ask them to fill in any gaps.

It can be disorienting for some staff because I can tell that they practiced trying to lay out everything perfectly so that I can understand them and that they have problems trying to parse everything out to create the delta between what they know and what I know.

A - if I have time listen, look for surprises, if something doesn’t match my expectations or experience ask Socratic questions… Maybe I’ll learn something new. No need to cut them off, just steer the conversation toward interesting areas

If they really think you don’t know then interrupt and say that you know. If they just want to be listened to, which happens a lot, then listen if that’s ok for the situation.

D) Excitedly finish their sentence to create a moment of shared understanding

“So you have xyz and then–”

“Oh yeah! B! It’s so cool, isn’t it? And then C and D!”

“Yeah!”

Fist bump

Or at least this is what I would want to happen if I ever actually talked to people. >.>

Honestly, it kind of depends how well you know this person and what kind of relationship you have, but I think it’s best to take the “Yes, and…” approach.

If you like or care about this person, then definitely don’t rudely interrupt them to shut them down by telling them that you already know what they’re saying. Obviously you don’t have to pretend like you don’t know… But people want to feel like what they’re saying matters, so give them the small win of hearing them out, and then affirm them and add something to what they’re saying of you can.

So, here’s an example of what you probably shouldn’t do:

A: “So the other day I was watching a video on painting and I found out that if you mix blue and yellow you–”

B: “Green. You get green. I know that. I know everything about mixing colors. Everybody knows that.”

What would be better in most cases, would probably be something like.

A: “So the other day I was watching a video on painting and I found out that if you mix blue and yellow you get green. And mixing blue with red will give you purple.”

B: “Yeah, totally! And red and yellow gives your orange, right? And I’ve heard it’s also a good idea to have warm and cool versions of all of the primaries, so that you can get more mixing varieties.”

So, you’re both listening and affirming what the other person is saying, and then demonstrating that you know a bit about this too by adding to it. You’re not making A feel useless, stupid or unappreciated. You’re not making yourself look like a rude jerk or a know-it-all.

Obviously it depends heavily on who you’re talking to and what your relationship is. (Some people who are friends love to talk shit to each other for fun, and in that kind of relationship you probably don’t need to be as careful about hurting the other person’s feelings.)

Generally speaking, though, it’s good to remember that a conversation isn’t just about you exchanging information with another person, and so it’s important to consider how other people feel when you talk to them, in my opinion.

Assuming they are not doing some kind of smug petty explaining they know I already know and there is plenty of time available, I will listen to see if there is something I don’t know about or whether they have any gaps that I could fill in. I mean, talking about things one already knows about is really common.

If they are smugsplaining something I will just cut them off and move the conversation along. If there isn’t time I will say that I am familiar with the topic and ask if they could focus on the relevant parts.

I get excited and finish their sentences, then try to take the convo past the basic stuff, but try to share in their interest.