Track_Shovel@slrpnk.net to memes@lemmy.worldEnglish · 2 days agoMe in my 40sslrpnk.netimagemessage-square9fedilinkarrow-up1354arrow-down13file-text
arrow-up1351arrow-down1imageMe in my 40sslrpnk.netTrack_Shovel@slrpnk.net to memes@lemmy.worldEnglish · 2 days agomessage-square9fedilinkfile-text
Used to doubt myself so much. Impaired by the thought of making a mistake or looking like an idiot. Now I hop.
minus-squarefoggy@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up28·2 days ago When you’re 20, you care what everyone thinks of you When you’re 40, you don’t care what anyone thinks of you When you’re 60, you realize no one was thinking about you the whole time. This can be crippling or freeing.
minus-squareCarnelian@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up12·2 days agoDepends tbh I’ve definitely known some seriously gossipy people who clearly spend a ton of time thinking about others
minus-squaretrashcan@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up2·21 hours agoI know someone’s already covered this, but seriously: their opinions don’t matter
minus-squareBroadfern@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up7·2 days agoTo (vaguely) quote Dr. Seuss: “The people who mind, don’t matter and the people who matter, don’t mind.”
minus-squarefoggy@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·2 days agoOh humans aren’t a monolith. It’s a rule of thumb, and OP is right on track.
This can be crippling or freeing.
Depends tbh I’ve definitely known some seriously gossipy people who clearly spend a ton of time thinking about others
I know someone’s already covered this, but seriously: their opinions don’t matter
To (vaguely) quote Dr. Seuss:
“The people who mind, don’t matter and the people who matter, don’t mind.”
Nice. Now do it verbatim.
Oh humans aren’t a monolith.
It’s a rule of thumb, and OP is right on track.