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      I got called that when I flipped off a guy in a lifted truck who almost rammed into my car on purpose in a parking lot

      I’m a white guy with a beard

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      Dude is wearing a nice coat and a scarf. Don’t you know if you are not wearing a trucker hat and a coat from the army surplus store that you are a fag.

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        I was in WV visiting family for Thanksgiving. I wasn’t wearing incredibly nice clothing, but it wasn’t just a hoodie or whatever other junk is cheap. I really felt out of place (which I was). I was getting a hotdog at a place that only opens for two days every year now, that was a staple a famous, and the next nicest clothes was probably some old guy wearing a jacket either from a surplus store or from Vietnam or something.

        The good news is no one cared. I wasn’t called anything and no one seemed to be bothered. I am a straight white man though.

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        can confirm, any guy wearing a scarf in the sticks is probably (considered by others to be) a fag

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        As someone who wears a surplus Czech army field jacket, I take umbridge with thine implications. Surplus is just thrift with a bias towards khaki, camo, and questionable food products. Also you can get some pretty solid storage boxes via surplus vendors, I keep my bungies and jumpers in a waterproof 30mm ammo case in the bed of my truck

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      It would have to be someone who knows him, or something about his style, accessories, or behavior, that emboldened a stranger to assume he was gay. The comic gives no hint at any of this being evident.

      Or maybe that guy calls everyone a faggot because he’s always confrontational.

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          My boss is from a small town and, for religious reasons, doesn’t swear and is deeply uncomfortable with it.

          But we asked one day if there’s a swear he does use he said

          “I hate to admit it, but faggot rolls off my tongue too easily.”

          Its the closest he’s ever come to swearing.

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      People really think the south/rural areas have people being giant racist homophobes to strangers… No they save that for people they know or think will agree with them

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        Here’s where you’re wrong

        Their litmus test for “people they think will agree with them” is just: be a white man.

        I am a burly white dude. Tall, big beard, I look like I walked out of the mountains… Unprompted, some white people will casually say some unhinged rascist shit to me. And have, many times.

        One time there was a shooting nearby, a white maintenence worker told me about it, and then without missing a beat goes “it was two black guys shooting at eachother, so much for brotherly love, right?”

        Another time, in a gas station up in the sticks, Im buying a can of monster. Some white stranger, unprompted, taps me on the shoulder starts telling me about how the logo is a Jewish letters for the sign of the devil…

        So, no, you dont have to be someone these people know… you just have to a white man. They assume any white man (especially masculine presenting) is one of them.

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            depends on how much you want to fuck with em, in the case of jewphobia i like to give em a l’chaim.

            “oh shit, the jews really are everywhere”

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          I tend to look like a hippie that was forced to dress up for church and people definitely just assume I’ll agree with their racist bullshit because I’m white.

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        i’m pretty sure i give off “hey, whatever your views whoever you are i’ll accept and validate you” vibes in person then, because jesus the titties on a walrus on a jetski christ the things some people have confided in me.