• ryannathans@aussie.zone
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      38 minutes ago

      Yeah well had I waited to sell my cool ~12000 bitcoin for more than like 30 cents each, I probably wouldn’t be working my ass off right now

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    “I don’t remember you” was my idea to say the last 5 years have completely changed my life, but I’d probably assume I got Alzheimers ahead of schedule. One sentence is tough.

    “It worked out” feels like what if want to hear, but that ignores growing global and national issues. Might even make me lazier, believing in some grand natural path, creating a paradox.

    I could send details on the job move that made life better, but I’m on the path that took me out of that job already, so why try to change it?

    Are monetary moves the only thing that would work for me? Not to change my route, but give me some more padding today?

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      4 hours ago

      I was there five years ago, ten years ago, fifteen twenty and thirty years ago, and I said that to them. I was right. But it didn’t help.

      Don’t beat yourself up, it takes a lot of guts to love.

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    Don’t invite any of your family to your wedding, the sooner you sever all ties from your family, the better.

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      10 hours ago

      I honestly thought the same thing but I’m not entirely sure it would have mattered.

      BTC 6 years ago was still 10k. Yeah, you could take out a loan for a “sure thing”, but 🤷.

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        For me, it would have, but just because of the timing.

        I was selling newspaper ads back then. Typically, a shitty job, but the hospital got a multi million dollar grant to use towards COVID advertising. I made a lot of commissions during that time, but now it’s all gone.

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    Don’t move across the country with him, get a divorce, your gut instincts are right, he’s been cheating on you this whole time and he’s about to financially ruin you.

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    Shit’s about to hit the fan from multiple directions and all at once. There is nothing you can do to stop it, but instead focus on how to handle it. In a more healthy way.