• Lojcs@piefed.social
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    1 day ago

    Do poeple really like blowjobs this much? Why are they always the punchline?

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      23 hours ago

      Tell me you’ve never had a good blowjob, without telling me you’ve never had a good blowjob.

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      23 hours ago

      Um, yes. You get most of the great stuff about the other holes, plus a tongue that can do all sorts of wonderful things, the mouth can vibrate if they make noise while you’re in there, your partner has more control over tightness etc.

      There’s also the aspects of submission to your partner, and the fact that like all oral, they aren’t getting direct stimulation themselves from it. They’re doing it for you because they just want you to feel great.

      It’s pretty hard to get a completely unenjoyable blowjob, but the ceiling on how great one can feel is fucking astronomical.

      It’s one of those things where you can end up chasing the “high water mark” of the best one you’ve had for decades. I hold on to vivid memories of one I had eighteen years ago. I find that sex can be similar, but seems to be easier to reach the heights of your best times because you have more personal control. Blowjobs rely entirely on your partner, and most people don’t enjoy getting pointers on technique, especially in the moment.

      So the mindblowing, life changing ones are rare. But it’s almost always fun.


      I don’t think most people wonder why women love recieving oral, so I’m kind of surprised people would be confused about blowjobs, lol.

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      I imagine so. Im not too keen because im wired weird, I vastly prefer giving than getting, but physically they do feel awesome.